William Glasser states that when we have difficulty getting along with other people, such as our relationships between husbands and wives, we will almost always choose to employ external control
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Timothy D Evans, PH.D, LMFT
Many couples have used couple councils and have reaped the benefits of getting more things accomplished and enjoying their relationship more. They have found that bills
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Some Obstacles to use of More Effective Parent Techniques
Dr. Frank Walton
1. The martyr wishes to put a halo on her (his) head by being all things to all people. Stimulates
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A Satisfying Marriage, Your Choice?[1]By Timothy D. Evans, Ph.D., Guest WriterMarriage is the most difficult and demanding of all the life tasks. Marriage asks more of its partners than does
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Winning Teens and Children Over1. Move parents from being bosses to leaders.2. Move children to become contributors.3. Encourage regularly. Encouragement is the basis of life, and is required for us
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Interesting ideas on Love & Marriage
Timothy Evans
1. Its not finding the "right" person to marry as much as meeting someone who wants to work things out.2. To keep a
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1). Man’s greatest evil is fear. Courage and belief in his own ability are the basis for all his virtues. Through his realization of his own value he can feel
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...Like Captured Fireflies By John Steinbeck
My eleven-year-old son came to me recently and in a tone of patient suffering, asked, “How much longer do I have to go to school?”
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First, Stop All Grousing !
By Timothy D. Evans and Raymond J. Corsini
1 Appeared in: The Family Journal: Counseling and Therapy for Couples and Families ~ Vol. 2, No. 1 (1994)
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An event occurred in 1929 that created a national sensation in educational circles. A young man named Richard Hutchins had worked his way through Yale, acting as a waiter, a
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“I don't know Who — or what — put the question, I don't know when it was put. I don't even remember answering. But at some moment I did answer
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