Understanding the Crisis of Equality
Our society is facing a crisis because the traditional ways we interact with each other no longer work. In the past, disputes were settled by competition—whoever was strongest made the decisions. Nowadays, no one truly wins in conflict; instead, we must find ways to come to agreement. This requires us to learn new methods of influencing one another. Until we do, tension and discord will persist in our communities, schools, and daily lives.
The Transition from Autocracy to Democracy
We are living in a period of great confusion, as old authoritarian beliefs slowly fade and the full meaning of democracy is not yet understood. This leaves us uncertain about what is right or wrong and unsure about how to proceed. It is likely that we will need to resolve this dilemma within the next two generations, and currently we are deeply engaged in searching for solutions. History has shown us, through figures like Hitler and other dictators, that turning back to outdated power structures leads nowhere. We are compelled to move forward with democratization, and the problems of democracy can only be solved by embracing more democracy.
Learning to Live as Equals
The challenge we face—both as individuals and nations—is learning to live together as equals. This is not an easy task, but it is necessary for everyone because democracy touches all people, regardless of age, gender, or background. Although many strong autocratic ties persist, the democratic process is far-reaching. All nations must navigate this transition, and it is time to understand that equality is not just an ideal but an urgent requirement. We must also learn to see ourselves as equals to others, which is not easily mastered. At times we feel superior; other times, we feel inferior. This constant concern with our status will continue to disturb our peace of mind if we keep measuring ourselves against others. Only by accepting ourselves as we are can we grow and live peacefully with others and within ourselves.
— R. Dreikurs, written more than 50 years ago