To Be A Help Not A Burden

TO BE A HELP NOT A BURDEN

To Be a Help

Be a Friend not an Enemy

Be involved (In the Here and Now)

Participate

Contribute

Cooperate

Encourage Self and Others

Trust Self and Others

Accept Others as Valuable Human Beings

Free Self and Others to Be

Respect Self and Others as Being Fine as They Are

To Move Towards and With Others

Be Interdependent & Mind Your Own Behavior-Choice

To Be a Burden

To Be Against Others

To Agree to Fight with Others

To Compare and Compete

To Refuse to Participate and Cooperate

To Criticize (Even Constructive Criticism)

To Blame and Judge Others

To Complain (Be Obsessed with Past and Future)

To Stonewall

To Make Excuses

To Control Others

To Want Your Own Way (Temper)